Don’t ask, don’t tell

December 1, 2010 Nine months after nearly 400,000 service members and more than 150,000 spouses of active and reserve component service members were surveyed by the Pentagon for their views on a potential repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” the results are in.In what’s been called “one of the largest surveys in the history of the U.S. military,” more than 70 percent of the 115,052 service members who completed the survey said the impact of repealing the policy that bans openly gay men and lesbians from serving in the armed forces would be positive, mixed or nonexistent.

First Black Friday experience

November 30, 2010 Well, my niece Abby has seen what all the fuss is about regarding Black Friday, and she’s still not sure she understands it.She’s not alone.

Hunting for heroes

November 30, 2010 America’s developing a real thing for heroes — not the kind in fiction, but the real-life variety.Oprah does entire shows about them. CNN ranks and profiles them in recurrent specials. President Obama even released a kids’ book about his 13 favorite heroes, and recently presented the Medal of Honor to Army Sgt. Salvatore Giunta, the first time the award has gone to a living hero since Vietnam.

Debt not solution

November 29, 2010 During this Christmas season of cheer and good tidings, a universal message is going forth. They are all united from Barack Obama to Martha Stewart to Wall Street banks, the Federal Reserve and even your local mall agrees: please borrow to spend more this Christmas.

So long, princess

November 29, 2010 Looks like animated princesses and fairy tales are a thing of the past for Disney, who for more than 70 years has made quite a living off Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and the like.According to an article by the Los Angeles Times, Disney’s animated films only reach a particular audience: girls, and boys think animated movies about princesses and happily ever after are icky.

Lottery missteps

November 26, 2010 LITTLE ROCK — The new Arkansas lottery system needs to improve its financial practices to avoid a loss of integrity, to eliminate a lack of transparency and to prevent any violations of state law, legislative auditors have found.The lack of financial controls is serious enough that legislators charged with oversight of the lottery have increased the frequency of reviews, stepping up meetings with auditors from once a year to six times a year until the problems are fixed.

Crazies are winning

November 26, 2010 Four years ago I had hip replacement surgery — which involves having an implant containing metal — and that means that every time I fly, which is often, a Transportation Safety Administration (TSA) employee passes a wand over my body to be sure I’m not concealing some explosive device on my person. I’m used to it and I don’t complain. It’s the price we pay for airline safety.

Finding spiritual growth

November 24, 2010 Is the recession good for your soul?The economic numbers continue to fluctuate, and the most reported psychological symptoms of the recession are depression, fear, worry and stress. Yet what has gone relatively unreported is the rise in gratitude and an appreciation for thrifty living.According to a study from market research firm Decitica, 71percent of men say they feel more fortunate now, and 76 percent of women say they feel more grateful. Both figures are up significantly from previous years.

Celebrating Thanksgiving

November 24, 2010 Most Americans know the story of Squanto and how he helped the Pilgrims of Plymouth, Massachusetts survive the winter of 1621 by showing them how to adapt to their new home. School children everywhere still celebrate the great tidings with cornucopias and pilgrim hats and turkeys drawn by tracing a hand and coloring in the fingers like feathers. The thumb is always the turkey’s head.

Praying for solace

November 23, 2010 When you’re a bereaved parent, to say holidays suck is putting it mildly. Nothing is the same; everything changes, in ways you’d never imagine. The grief is like a weight tied around your foot, pulling you further and further down. If you can keep your head above the water, then you’re doing all right by most accounts.