Reflecting on ‘what if’; So when the story started, “Well, right after he stole all that money from the mob…”

June 11, 2010 Ever wonder what if?Most of us at one time or another reflect on how our lives might have been different if we had altered our location, expanded our horizons, worked on getting a higher education, or ended up with a different partner.From time to time I think about those “what ifs” and realize that instead of feeling like I might have missed an opportunity that in reality I may have escaped what might have otherwise been a disaster.

If I ran a high school….

June 10, 2010 As my two kids progressed through public high school I launched numerous dinner table discussions with the same six words. Now that it’s graduation time, I’m going take one last crack at starting that way.If I ran a high school...

Looking for ‘little Brenda’

June 10, 2010 Mary Kay Woodyard was a nurse at Craig Hospital in Batesville more than six decades ago when an extremely premature baby girl was brought to the hospital.“She was born premature in an ambulance about seven miles from Batesville. I don’t know in which direction,” Woodyard said Monday.The doctors told Woodyard, whose last name at the time was Reynolds — that the baby was so premature that she would never make it.

Not the time…

June 9, 2010 Now is not the time for a Sports Complex in Batesville.It seems to be a popular idea of elected government officials to push this the proposed additional sales tax to finance the proposed Sports Complex. This is not the time for Batesville to be doing this.We have just started to recover from one of the worst economic periods in recent U.S. history. If you had a business or worked for a business that is just recovering or is trying to secure a more certain future, would you buy a swimming pool for your home or for your employees?

E.M. Forster and Facebook

June 9, 2010 “Big Brother” is watching you in a very “Orwellian” way. Has been for years. People who have never heard of George Orwell know of the term “Big Brother.” In many ways his dark vision of what the year 1984 would look like is prophetic. For example, his novel 1984 takes place during a never-ending war while technology is aiding an over-reaching government. I read that in the New York Times yesterday.Orwell was right. He was dead on. Spooky.

Sisters teach equality to Afghan women

June 8, 2010 As Afghanistan attempts to reach a peace accord with Taliban leaders, U.S. lawmakers, says USA Today, “have made clear that they want women’s rights preserved in any potential deal to integrate former insurgents into the government.”My five sisters took it upon themselves to prepare Afghani women for equality.“We hear the Taliban men made you cover your faces and wear floor-length shrouds,” said one of my sisters to one Afghan woman.“It is true,” said the woman.“And they wouldn’t let you work or allow your daughters to go to school?”“Also true.”

Gardening questions

June 8, 2010 It’s the second week of June, and I still don’t have any squash or zucchini ready to pick, not to mention peppers. Is this normal?I’m still learning the ropes when it comes to this gardening stuff. This is my first year to have any kind of bed whatsoever — something besides a few pots on my back deck. I chose squash and zucchini because it seems like every gardener I know ends up with too much, so I figured they couldn’t be that hard to grow, right?

Better off dreaming

June 7, 2010 I sat on my tuffet, I ate my curds and whey and one would have thought that spider was real.It was the perfect Oscar-worthy moment during that little church production of “Little Miss Muffet” in El Dorado, if I do say so myself, but that’s about as far as “Lacy Mitchell the actress” ever went in public.Still, the dreams of bright lights, big stages and movie cameras have never subsided and it will always be one thing I wish I would have pursued even if only on the small stage.

The bright side of the BP oil spill

June 7, 2010 To say the news coming out of the Gulf is not what you call encouraging, and it’s making people crazy. No. Really. Crazy. Louisiana native and Democratic strategist James Carville went off on the Ppresident like a string of overstuffed firecrackers in a pot-bellied stove. And for Carville to savage the leader of his own party either means he’s mad as hell and can’t take it anymore or his wife Mary Matalin’s naggingly oppressive monotonic brain-washing has achieved full saturation. I would hazard a bit of both.

Look north this summer for vacation plans

June 4, 2010 Has the oil spewing into the Gulf of Mexico caused you to rethink your summer vacation plans? Cancel your Gulf fishing trip? Here’s a thought: Look north.I know a place with unique fishing, islands that rival the Caribbean, plenty of things to keep the family occupied, good eating, and best of all you don’t need a passport and everyone speaks English. Curious yet? It’s time to check out Lake Erie.Lake Erie, the 13th largest lake in the world, is one of the Great Lakes that spans the border between Canada and the United States, but it is so much more.